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How do I get him to French Kiss me?

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Question - (29 March 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *ings_alot_chicky writes:

my bf and i have been dating for a while and i so badly want him to French kiss me.....Sadly have never done it before so i don't wanna make the first move.

how can i get him to either french kiss me or get the idea that i want him to?

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A male reader, uncle bob Canada +, writes (29 March 2011):

uncle bob agony auntThis is an answer I've posted before, but I believe you can adapt it enough to fit your situation.

First, he might not be ready for this level of intimacy.

Or he may lack the confidence for this type of kiss.

Remember, you want to enter part of his body with part of yours.

Initially, the very thought of this can really "FREAK" some people out, especially for those that never done this before.

However, if you feel you really have to do this,

(by the way, I think your too young)

hold him closer, kiss him longer and slower, and slightly part your lips.

If he's a normal healthy young male, he'll get the hint.

If he doesn't, he's not ready.

What ever you do, take it slow. Nature will eventually find it's way!

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A female reader, Confused_123 United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2011):

This happened to me with my second boyfriend. You have two options-

1. Ask him about it- bring up the subject and ask if he wants to and if he doesn't find out why (he's probably just shy or scared he'll do something wrong).

2. Next time you kiss just do it. Preferably in private so if it goes wrong no one except him will know and he'll realise you want to and there you go- he'll understand you want to french kiss and you can start next time you kiss.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011):

I am having the same problem, except he told everyone we snogged, when we haven't yet, I want him to!

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A male reader, Jackalus United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2011):

Make your lips look irresistible. Lip stick or gloss maybe.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (29 March 2011):

dirtball agony auntEither go for it or talk to him about it. He may have never done it either so is scared to try just like you. Part of being in a relationship is talking to your BF about these kinds of things. If you're not ready to talk to him about it, you're not ready for the activity.

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