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How do I found out if the rumours about my partner's cheating are true?

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Question - (25 March 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2006)
A female , *illy26 writes:

I am 7 months pregnant by my partner of 4 years. Another couple we know told me yesterday that he cheated on me 4 months ago. He denies it and says they're lying. How do I find out the truth? If it's true, what do I do? I asked for the other female's number, I need to hear it. They said that they don't want to get her involved. Who do I believe?

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A female reader, kittykatty +, writes (26 March 2006):

Hunny if this couple only told you now he cheated on you andthey wont give you the number the chances are it isnt true! If you love and trust your boyfriend you have to believe him!But if you find out it is true you should consider deeply what to do! Once a cheater always a cheater applies to many men but some do learn from their mistakes! You are pregnant and should not have to worry about this!have a serious talk with the couple and tell them you need that number and you need to sort it out!they can not let your man live a life of lies to you just so they dont get involved! Tell them that and if they wont give you the number chances are your husband is telling the truth! maybe the couple are jealous as your relationship is going better than theirs or because you are pregnant they could lie for alot of reasons so you shoudnt just belive them!goodluck sweetheart! kitty

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A female reader, addison +, writes (26 March 2006):

addison agony auntBelieve your instincts! Is he the kind of guy that would cheat? Do you have reason to doubt him? Would this other couple tell you lies? Who do you trust the most?

If it is true it is up to on what you decide..once a cheater always a cheater. There is a child to consider so think very carefully. That child needs to come first. If the other couple dont want you to talk to the other woman, then the chances are that its not true. You need to speak to her. Get that pone number and call! After all its not up to them and its not their relationship, its yours.

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