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writes:goin shoppin next week with my friend who I think I like. First time we goin alone jus for a few things anythin I cud do to test her if she likes me without giving the teeniest hint I do? Cud I buy her a meal? Cofee? Nythin? Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyBruce  +, writes (12 May 2008):
Nah forget all that. If you wanna know if this skirt likes you or not you have to make this the most smut filled afternoon imaginable. Anything to do with norgs, hooters, booty, wangs and plums has to be your bread and butter my friend. You can start off subtley by going to the fruit and vegie store and comparing various melons, cucumbers and grapes to the male and female anatomy (girls love that!), then kick it up a gear and head to the adult store. Don't ask if she wants to go in, just head straight in and if I know women, she'll follow.
What you can do from there is pick up any item in that store and show her with a raised eyebrow as if to say "yeah? what do ya reckon love? are we on?"
In my experience this usually results in a wry smile, a lick of the lips and the girl moaning loudly while fanning herself. BUT... beware my friend, there's a small risk it won't work. But just think if it does, you don't have to worry about all the courting and "spending time with her" nonsense. You know she's a goer- and as Shakespeare once said you guys can get "bus-ay with each other" immediately
Best of luck my friend, if you follow my advice and keep it subtle, then you should be sweet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Um, in comment to the last post.. A necklace might be a bit much.. he wants hardly any hints, and a necklace pretty much gives his game away.
But yeah, if you guys go into a cafe or coffee shop, buy whatever she orders. Keep flirting secretly - lots of eye contact and maybe lightly touch her arm every now and again. If she responds well or flirts back, then you're in!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): no buy her a necklace.. or something unique and special.. not coffe ot food i wudnt want a guy buy me that get her a necklace simple one donesn't cost too much cud be even under 10 $ but it will let you know and it will mean alot ... good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): hm, tell her you want to pay for anything she'd like.. coffee and meal is good. flirt a little bit? just have fun
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