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writes:I oftend think i was touched by my father when i was little. Im always really worried somthing's going to happen to my 1yr old. I have flash backs of times that he may have done somthing to me. Around other people hes always been touchy, plays with my hair hugs me really tight,kisses me alot. Even my childs father (my boyfriend) says its weird. Hes always been very contorling and physicly abusive to me. How do i find out for sure without asking him? or if i did ask him how do i. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): I would just come right out and ask him, because even if he doesn't admit it, the accusation alone would be enough to freak him out and i'd bet he'd stay clear of you and your daughter. also if you havent already you should confide in your boyfriend about your suspicions and flashbacks so that he will protect you and your daughter from him. also do you have any siblings? if so you may want to ask them if they remember any thing strange happening to them when they were little. at the very least you should stay away from him!
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reader, heartbroken101  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 make sure you have someone with you and i think the best thing to do would be to ask him straight out. tell him you are worried and you don't feel comfortable with his kind of behaviour around your child. if your not comfortable.....VOICE it and dont hide behind it. you need to tell him
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