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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my best friend was going out with this guy for a long time. it was her frist proper boyfriend and she took him really seriously. they 'loved' each other and so did sexual things together. when he dumped her, she was heart boken because he said 'i neverloved you and the only reson i stayed with you was for the blowjobs and stuff' she quickly moved on to another guy and then onto another for a couple of months in which she did what she did with the first boyfriend. she has now split up with the most recent and is now getting back together with the first who has a girlfriend. im really worried she will get upset again as i think he is using her. ive told her whati think but it hasnt changed her mind. is there anything else i can do?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 February 2007):
 Unfortunately you can't make her change her mind if she really believes he's changed. The worst thing about being best friends (in my opinion) is telling your friend not to do something, watch them do it and then have to comfort them because it's all gone wrong. All of this without saying I told you so. It's hard, really hard, but this is what your friend wants and if you don't support her in her decision then you will make her feel bad. The best thing you can do is counsel her to be careful not to lose her heart too quickly and make sure that if she takes things further with him that she keeps it safe. Try not to worry too much. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in other peoples' lives we forget to live our own.
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