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writes:ok so heres the problem ive been dating someone for the last few months and before we dated he was one of my best friends. right around the time me and him started dating i met someone else and since then ive been basically dating them both only one of them knows (the newer guy) and the only reason we werent officially dating is because my parents wont give him a chance. they are both really sweet and i like them both i would have chosen but its just so hard to decide. so 2 questions. one how do i know if i am IN love or just love one of them? and 2 if it is the newer guy how do i break up with my boyfriend without hurting his feeling to badly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): Being IN love is one step further than love. Being in love means that you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. That you want to see them every morning and every night and you cant imagine your life without them, even with all their faults wich by this time you know very well. Being in love means that you feel that things dont have the same kind of excitement or flavor unless they are shared with your loved one. Being in love means that you thank goodness it hadnt worked out with someone else so that you can be with that person now. Some of those feelings might be there with infatuation, but until you have passed through the love phase of it, dont mistake these things for anything lasting.and to answer your second question just be honest with him about how you feel and there should be no hard feelings.hope this helps
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