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How do I bring up that I don't like it when he calls me names when we fight? I don't want to seem like I am attacking him

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Question - (3 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my bf and i love each other a lot but sometime when we fight he tells me im being a bitch. its not often at all but i try not to call him name when we fight. it has really started bothering me so should i say something to him? and how do i bring it up so he doesnt feel like im attacking him?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (3 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntTell him about the Geneva conventions for warfare.

The rules of war, no derogatory name calling ,no under the belt blows,no swearing of bad words, (add in your other rules after this ...)

Better still,print it out and hand it over to him. :-)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2010):

You tell him straight to stop calling you a bitch. Don't take it, or this will get worse and worse.

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