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How do I ask him about this?

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Question - (21 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *hegraveyarddoll writes:

my man and i have been together for quite some time now, and he is the only man i've tried anal with. he is really into it- so i've been thinking of trying to play with his prostate gland. i understand what to do, the only problem is- how do i ask him? i want it to seem sexy and like it would be a good idea...but i have no idea how to even start!! please help

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A male reader, guy-2011 United Kingdom +, writes (21 March 2011):

just go for it, this is funny. seriously, every bloke is up for EVERYTHING! dont ask him though, just do it.

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A female reader, LustyLisa United States +, writes (21 March 2011):

I'd be frank and to the point. By your admission, "he's really into it" when he's the penetrator. Next time anal comes up, tell him what's good for the goose is good for the gander and if he wants to continue have access to your anus, then he's going to have to submit to some anal plundering of his own anus for a change. It's completely unfair and selfish for him to be the penetrator when his own anus is safe from exploitation. Time to turn the tables girl. You've shown willingness and openness to allow experiementation, now it's time to see if he's as willing and "into it" as he claims when it's his but on the line!

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