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How could I make the first move with my guy friend without being too obvious?

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Question - (17 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm pretty sure (but not completely positive just yet) that one of my guy friends likes me as more than just a friend and I think I have feelings for him too, but the question is: what do I do from here? I mean, I could always wait for him to make the first move, but what if he doesn't ever make a move or moves on and becomes interested in someone else?

So how do I make the first move without being too forward and obvious (you know, just in case he doesn't like me like that)?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007):

Hey

Go out with him by yourself and just see how it goes- when your alone yor feel if he wants something to happen. this might not be a physical action but just ..i dunnoo... a feeling in the air.

and then yea talk about it- and keep it casual

peace,

excogito

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A female reader, AngelofLove United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2007):

AngelofLove agony auntRather than wait, talk to him about it. He may be feeling exactly the same way.

Specially if you think he likes you too, go for it!

What signs did he give you to indicate he likes you.

First move if you want to be subtle is asking him " if a friend liked another friend in a romantic way, should he/she saying anything and risk a friendship" this way you can sound him out and even joke about it to see his reaction. the only way to find out for sure if to ask outright.

Good luck

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