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writes:Dear Cupid,I have this relationship with my friend,(whose male) that i'm not sure of. I'm pretty sure I'm in love of him as I think about him all the time. However, sometimes he's my friend, other times he's more flirty and romantic, and other times he doesn't talk to me. He says he used to really like me, but at the minute he really likes this other girl. I know her but have never talked to her. I really don't know where I stand, but it's driving me crazy. And he's sending me completely mixed messages. Please help!Love from,Hiddenspace
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reader, Mirabell +, writes (7 December 2005):
 If he "used" to like you two things are true:1. For some reason, he stopped liking you like that2. If he liked you once, you can probably get him to like you again.Try to find out why his feelings ended so abruptly (without you ever knowing they existed). Maybe he tried to show you how he felt but you didn't see it and it broke his heart. Either way, if he is hurt than he probably is just scared to like you because he doesn't want to get hurt again.Just be stable and constant in how much you like him, no matter how he tests you. This doesn't mean be all over him, rather you should just try to be sweet and fun and considerate to him as much as possible (think 'perfect girlfriend without the kissing' behavior). He'll come around and break up with that other girl when he realizes she's not all she's cracked up to be.
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