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writes:I need some advice- please help if you can..So here's my situation.. I had a boyfriend for 7 months, we broke up because I wanted time apart. During that time apart, nothing really changed cause we were still together a lot and still kissing. A few months after that, I found out he was talking to another girl every night for like an hour. I told him he needed to stop that esp. because he kept saying he wanted to be with me and that he only loved me. When he said he would stop talking to her, I was fine but then I found out that he hadn't stopped at all so I gave him the ultimatum of either talking to me, or her and he said he chose me but continuously kept talking to her. These type of arguments went on for about a month and a half and finally he stopped. To me, it seemed like these conversations stopped only because I found out they had kissed (only pecked, twice) and confronted him about it. I'm not really sure what to do now but he still calls me all the time to ask for another chance and I'm not sure if I should give it to him. I ask myself all the time.. How can I trust him now since he lied to me twenty times that he would stop talking to her but actually didn't? He also lied about nothing happening between the two because I specifically asked if anything happened. Please help!! Oh- and not only did he talk to her but he would also lie to me about being tired or going to bed and even losing his voice to talk to her instead of me.
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reader, livi  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 hey there,
difficult situation.
you need to let him know that this is his last chance, if you find out again that he has lied to you, you will cut him out of your life, after all you deserve respect.
you cant take it any longer, and he seems to be making the same mistake continuesly, it doesnt sound like the message is getting through. #xx#
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): you gave him the ultimatum, and he didnt choose you. you need to get away from this guy cause its pretty obvious that he doesnt value you.
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