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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a 32 year old male and have been in a relationship with another 29 year old man for the last eight years. About 5-6 times a year, we have a threesome with another male. I would like to note this has never caused a problem for us, neither have cheated on the other, we have both always been disease free probably because we are very careful and only practice safe sex. A little background... Prior to meeting my current partner, I was married to a woman for three years. I am technically bisexual as I am still attracted to the opposite sex. My partner on the other hand is gay, although he has slept with about 25 women whereas I have only slept with three (including my ex).The issue... I am kind of bored with always have three men in our threesomes - I would like to mix it up by having a woman as our third on occasion. I neither know how my partner would react to this nor do I know how to approach this given he expressed disinterest in having a threesome with a female in the past - although he has admitted he would sleep with Britney Spears given the chance! LOL.Any advice besides stop having threesomes would be appreciated! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): i agree.. just ask him outright. the most important thing in a sex life, as im sure you know, is communication. besides, if you dont ask, you dont get... :)
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reader, shanana +, writes (7 July 2010):
I think you should just throw it out there. "Hey babe, I was thinking that i'd like to add a woman into our next 3some. What do you think". Jump in with both feet... Good luck!
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