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How can I stop pushing my boyfriend away and make our relationship healthier?

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Question - (11 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and sometimes I feel like i'm not good enough for him. I talked to him the other day because I wasn't feeling as loved as he usually makes me feel. He said that nothing is wrong and he still feels the same about me. I feel like I always have to be the one to ask what his plans are or if he wants to go out and do something, and its really starting to bother me. I'm always the one to buy him things and i'm starting to feel like I cant do anything right. Whenever we bicker or argue, it seems to always be my fault and i'm the one saying sorry first. Things werent always like this, for awhile it was the opposite and then it was mutual and now its turned on me. I know he loves me and wants to be with me but his actions dont say that.

I do overreact in a lot of situations and I dont want that to push him away so i need advice on how to control that and how to make our relationship healthier

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010):

Wow. I am in the same situation! Exactly. We could be twins. I don't have advice because like I said I'm dealing with it myself but if you ever want to talk let me know. I'm sure we can share similar stories.

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