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30-35,
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writes:I have lots of panic attacks about the littlest things. I really am not pleased with how I look and sometimes my boyfriend is kinda stuid and makes comments about my body or other girls body. I panic and shut down . Also, my boyfriend watches porn and it makes me feel horrible! I feel like he's choosing to watch other girls instead of watching us. Like I said, I panic and get mad at him. How can I become more secure? And not panic at every little thing?
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reader, Catflap1  +, writes (27 August 2010):
Find yourself a boyriend who boosts you and isn't so interested in porn. Learn early to make good choices for yourself. You are too young to be trying to get him to change. He thinks he is entitled to do what he likes and that isn't good because if he wanted to protect you from being hurt or feeling bad it would be no problem to stop doing hurtful things. It is not you who needs to stop being insecure. Porn upsets lots of girls who think they either have to compete or that it is their fault they can't deal with it. It isn't, it makes women feel really bad for a good reason. It makes us feel second class and shows women as meat.The only way to stop worrying about how you look, although I am sure you are lovely, is to live life for other reasons than that. There is s whole world out there to explore and one life in which to make the best of your talents. Stop worrying and start to look at your life and what you want to do with it. Thirty years will shoot by and you will wonder what happened. I should know!
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