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writes:MOD NOTE: Please resubmit your question using initial capitals only and NOT all capital letters (which is not allowed.)*************************okay my question is i have a boyfriend and we knew each other for 5months and we started dating 7/1/09 and i really care about him and i love him and the problem is im way to selfish with him what should i do?? it's like i don't hate it when he hangs out with his family or friends because i just want him to be home talking to me i don't know what to do to stop being selfish can someone help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): He will get sick of you being like this, and may well leave you. You have no right to stop him seeing his freinds and family, ever. It's controlling, manipulative, and is the reason why we have so many people asking for help on here because of controlling partners.I suspect than when he goes, you are bored. Why not hook up with your family and freinds when he goes to see his? They you wont feel lonely. Or take up a new hobby.Agree on times when you see each other, so that you both spend enough time together, but do not stop him seing his own.If he sees them almost constantly, then fair enough, but it does not seem like he is. So fill up your spare time! Otherwise he will resent you for stopping him seeing his freinds.
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reader, daglish  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 If u dont mind, your question is very wide. How selfish?
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