A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello there. so i'm 17 andi've liked this guy whos also 17 for about 3 years now. i really like, he means the world to me. we got pretty close a few times and would make out and stuff like that. but then a few days later its back to normal and i want to get together with him like a real couple, but i just dont know. i keep trying but it just doesnt work. i'm pretty sure he knows i like him. we're really good friends and stuff. i'm happy but want more. then now he calls me his "little sister" i'm happy that he thinks of me as more then a freind but i wanted romanically but not so much a family way. is there any way i can have him not think of me as just a "little sister"? im happy we can be this close i really am. i was thinking if heis happy the way things are maybe i shouldnt say anything and just be his "little sister" but i dont know cause then i'll just keep wanting more. please help. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, The Realist  +, writes (2 June 2011):
 Sometimes it takes alot to get through to guys that you are interested. Have you ever just been straight forward with him and told him that you like him. There is no reason why you can't ask him out instead of waiting for him to figure it out.
It might make things tense for a bit if he isn't interested but at least then you will know and I'm sure it would just pass then.
I have always found people using terms like "little sister" quite odd for friends. Especially since you two have made out. It definitely shows that there are some feeling there that maybe he is trying to hide because he doesn't think you will be interested. Yes I do know that you have probably given him more than enough signals but that doesn't mean he gets them or trusts that they do really mean that you are in to him. I think the straight forward method is the best one in this case.
|
