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How can I last longer without a condom?

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Question - (5 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2011)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, so this is starting to get very frustrating for me and i would imagine so in with my girlfriend. When ever we have sex without the use of condoms seems as though i can not last nearly as long as i can with the use of a condom. Its due to the head on my penis being so sensitive, i am circumcised so how can i reduce this overly sensitive feeling which makes sex so much shorter?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011):

when i first started out with my partner we would use them but now we dont he had the same problem and we wanted to sort it. so what we started to do was play around more with each other before the urge got any worse. once he was going for it, i could feel he wanted to cum but so he didnt i told him that i wanted a diffrent position and it worked, try moving unto diffrent positions that helps alot. hope your problem is sorted out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011):

Many methods exist. As someone who had the same question and problem to a degree up to about last week heres what I can reccomend.

Focus on something totally different when doing the deed. Some say count to 100, others say name states and capitals, some say recite the alphabet.

Try to spank the monkey anywhere from 30-60 minutes beforehand, depending on your recovery time.

If you feel like your about to go, Pull out and go to your fingers or tongue, Your girl might like the change AND it allows you to get control again. (it only takes me about 5-7 seconds to feel ready again)

There are also exercises you can do while masturbating or peeing that can tone your pelvic floor muscle too, which is supposed to help with your control, I try these, but I can't attest to whether or not they work. Just google Pelvic floor exercises for men and see what u get.

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