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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he recently told me he wanted to break up a little less than a month ago. He said it was because of our fighting. I didn't think it was that bad compared to other couples fighting(and they are still together).He moved out yesterday and he says we can still be good friends. Since we've broken up we have still been having sex. Do we still have a chance at working things out? He also is starting to talk and hangout with other girls. He swers they are just friends from work. Should I let him go or keep hoping we can get back together? How can I keep him interested in me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): I think hes also just using you for sex until he actually starts dating one of these other girls.I think you need to accept that its over as he did initiate the break up in the beginning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): Sorry to say this, but sounds to me like he is just using you for the sex now, don't let him have what he wants, ask him to explain whats going on, talk to him about getting back together, and if he dismisses it then seriously move on!
'How can i keep him interested in me?'
.. Don't change for anyone! Whoever they are! If you are goin to change, do it for yourself, but because you want to.
If he doesn't appreciate you for who you are then bugga him!
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (5 July 2009):
This is always an interesting scenario for me to hear about. While I have never tried to continue a sexual relationship with a girl after breaking up with her I can understand why some couples especially long term relationship ones continue sex after a break up. My honest opinion? If he gets to have sex with you while he is not your boyfriend than why would he be interested in entering back into a commited relationship? After 5 years though I would imagine that he has to have at least a lingering emotional connection to you. My best advise would be to cease having a sexual relationship with him if you can. I know this will be hard but I really believe that if he is getting that without any strings he will eventually never feel obligated to be anymore for you. I know I am blunt but I hope this helps
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