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How can I just hang out with him more without it looking weird?

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Question - (25 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I need some help guys.

There is this guy (who I don't know if he is gay or not) that I have a massive crush on. I still don't know myself if I am gay, however I wouldn't be surprised after the feelings I have developed for him are true. He is in some of my classes at school, and we are friends. I am 16 and he is 17.

The thing is:

a) how do I find out if he is gay?

b) how can I tell him I like him?

c) how can I just hang out with him more without it looking weird (if he is not gay)?

The entire thing is literally killing me inside. I feel in love but don't know if IT could ever happen.

Every time I am with him or near him I feel a connection, it's really weird and I don't know how to describe it.

Thank you for your help.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009):

hi i have sorta the same problem =/ . there are these 2 guys that sleep over my house allot and i sorta have a crush on them. i have a girlfriend but for somereason i have this feeling for both of them but i cant tell if they like me too. =/ i had some touching with one of them. we slept on my bed watching a movie when he started schooching in closer . all of a sudden we started kissing and touching each other. he pulled his pants down and so did it. we only went to hand jobs and then feel asleep with our boners touching. we didnt talk about it but it felt amazing. i feel allittle bad about not telling my girlfriend but i got over it. you should just ask him to a bonfire or a party or invite him somewhere and see if he wants to sleep over. little things like that and youll be closer

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