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writes:Please advise me as to what I should do.I met this man a few months ago, that I just cannot get out of my mind...we spent a few nights together and went on a few dates, that was the most amazing feeling I have ever felt and really wants this to continue.The problem is this guy has got a bit of a roming eye and he has been very offish with me lately, he then all of a sudden started talking to me again and we again spent a night together, after I tried to just forget about him and move on...he comes back.He says he felt we were moving to fast.And that we should get to know each other.HOW COULD WE DO THAT WHEN WE HARDLY SPEND ANY TIME TOGETHER?I am not sure how he feels he never tells me straight out.I am to scared to tell him how I feel...as I don't want tp put pressure on him...please please tell me what I should do.I don't even know how to have a normal conversation with him...because of the way I feel. Please help!!!!
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reader, Saleem  +, writes (10 August 2008):
i think you need to tell him exactly how you feel and tell him straight up that you want a relationship and if he wants time to sort things out first thats ok.
If he says that he wants time you need to stop giving him what he wants because it seems that that is the only time he is spending with you and that is a HUGE red flag..once you are having sex with a man without having a relationship, he doesnt wanna love you, all he wants is the sex..
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Something's just not right with this relationship. I don't think he's in this for all the right reasons. If you two are not communicating well and you don't know each other well, why are you spending the night together?
I think you should find someone else and start out getting to know them without the physical relationship.
It is a major red flag when you can not have a normal converstaion with a man you are sleeping with.
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