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How can I get over this attraction to my cousin?

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Question - (19 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, *non2222 writes:

I am very attracted to my younger cousin. She is about 1 month younger then me. We were at a family party about a month ago. We have very rarely ever seen each other, I honestly didn't remember who she was at this family party, I don't think she remembered me either.

Anyways as soon as I seen her I was attracted to here, it might be because I don't remember her, but she was hot. We started talking and everything exchanged cell numbers and text regularly. This past week we went to visit her and her family. As we are the oldest of the kids we pretty much just hung out together without anyone else. One afternoon we were down in her room on her computer and watching tv. She decided to come out with how she was attracted to me, I did the same. I had already decided I would never do anything with her ass it is wrong. Well she informed me we were 2nd cousins then went and threw her self on me and started making out. I couldn't help myself I wanted to push her away but I just couldn't.

Later I started talking to her and said that nothing can happen between us, even though I don't think it is illegal for 2nd cousins to be together it still seems wrong.

Nothing will happen between us again, but we are both still very attracted to each other.

What should I do to get over this attraction? I also feel so guilty and bad for kissing her even though she threw herslef at me, what should I do about this guilt?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009):

Quite simply, it's not wrong. Take a look at www.cousincouples.com

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