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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been talking to a guy online over a year now. Our pattern is: I initiate conversation, he responds politely and vaguely. After some weeks or months I ask why is he still responding to my messages, he vaguely asks to meet up and I say I'm busy. Then he stops talking to me until I initiate conversation again, and the cycle continues. Last time this happened I said we should just be friends and let's definitely meet to which I got "No thanks, I'll wait." ...Huh? Is he waiting for a thing or event to occur? Does "no thanks" mean he doesn't even want to be my friend?So, what the heck is going on here? How can I do to help end this stupid cycle? Reply to this Question
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reader, chunkymunky  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 flower girl is right. you need to get him out of your life and out of your mind now because your 'relationship' isnt benefiting either of you. i suggest you delete him as a contact and get out and about with your friends in the real world ;) it will be okay once you forget about him and get on with your life xxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (8 July 2007):
 The only way to stop this cycle is to stop having contact with him altogether, you both seem to be playing games with one another so what is the point in this carrying on.
Take care.xx.
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