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writes:How to be in a relationship foreverI want to be taught how to love my girlfriend. I had a problem of wanting to change but i have failed and all i want is to relax and be happy. How do i avoid arguments how do i love her more appreciate her make her feel happy. Make her love me more and all. How do i make her to trust me more and i trust her more. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Hi love,
All of what you are saying comes naturally, you cant make someone love you more just as you cant love someone more than you do, that is a natural emotion that happens if your feelings are true to yourself. And with that comes the trust... You need to sit and talk through your problems and get to the bottom of what is making you both unhappy before the arguments start as then you have both just said hurtfull things to each other that you probably dont mean but its left you both distant and confussed to how the other is really feeling. Find some time to talk through your issues in a romantic way make it a special night so that you are both calm give each other time to talk and talk all night if you want to, get to no each other again in a loving way and take it from there i hope it works out for you good luck and take care love MANDY XXXX
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 You can't make any of what you have mentioned happen, it's just something that grows in time with your relationship and as long as you are both totally honest with each other all of the time then you should have no problems.
Something that has always worked for me and my husband to stop arguements is if we feel that there is something bothering one of us we sit down and talk about it and sort it out there and then rather than letting it build up until one of us explodes.
Take care.xx.
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