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writes:It was suggested by a guy that I recently just met and hooked up with that we should continue to just meet casually and hook up. My question is, how can I do this and still have the upper hand on it? I don't want him to think that I'm available any time he is feeling horny and I don't want him thinking that I'll be there any time with the snap of a finger. So, how do I go on about this type of FWB type of relationship and still be the one in control?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 October 2008):
You can't be completely in control of the relationship. The whole Friends With Benefits thing basically means you are FRIENDS.Who's in control in a friendship? No one.He'll call and if you are free and in the mood he can come round. If you are busy / not in the mood then he can call someone else.Same with you. You can call him up and ask him to come round and he might do or he might not.This isn't a relationship, it's exactly the same as having someone to play tennis with, only you have sex not tennis.Good Luck!! xx
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