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*iva girl
writes:my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years. me and his best friend were talking one day and he grabbed my waist, pulled me over and kissed me on the lips. but this friend is one of my friends too. now my boyfriend knows and wants to kill him. even though this happened, i would still like to be friends with this guy but my boyfriend doesn't like it. what should i do?
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reader, diva girl +, writes (19 May 2008):
diva girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you to coulisfoulis. i like that answer. it sounds like you know what you are talking about!!
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reader, coulisfoulis +, writes (18 May 2008):
You need to put your boyfriend first. Clearly the guy was in the wrong, but you need to make every effort not to make your boyfriend see this as a threat. Continuing the friendship could cause suspicions. Even if your motives are 100% platonic, everyone involved knows his aren't! I'm dealing with a very similar situation. I know my girl would never cheat, but why talk to the guy? It makes the boyfriend crazy. Don't lose him over nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): girl dodn`t worry something like that happend to me. i think you should just stay away from that friend of yours. when my problem happend i just stay away form that guy.
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