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writes:Dear Cupid,I'm from Europe but I recently moved to the US to study here.This year a boy started to have interest in me (when I still lived in EU). So we started to hang out and really got to know each other. It defenitely is more than a crush. So the last two weeks before I left, we officialy were lovers (God, I hate that word :p). And then I left, madly in love with him. We agreed to try and wait for eachother. But we also knew that it might be coming to an end.Now I'm here, really homesick. I do not in any way feel at home here, I can hardly eat or sleep and I cry most of the time (sounds a bit dramaqueen srry :p). It is going to be a year before I get to go home. I really miss my old country and family but most of it all, I miss him so much. I'm really afraid that we might lose each other or that I am going to forget about him and forget how much I actually love him. I'm also afraid that when I come back it is all going to be different, that we have changed and that it won't be the way it was anymore.What should I dooo! Do you know what I can do to stop thinking about him ALL THE TIME. And how we can possibly still make this work?Thank you so much for your help and I'm sorry for my bad english ;).Xx
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Talk to him. Of course you don't feel at home here yet, you just uprooted yourself from everything you have ever known and now you live in a new country, it's going to take some getting used to.
If you two are as madly in love as you describe then I honestly believe your relationship with this man will do just fine. Make sure you stay in communication with him and update him on what you're doing and what he is doing, etc.
Long distance relationships can work and can last as long as both people are willing to go that extra mile and make things work. You're English is better than most people I know that were born here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): Hi !Maybe you should just let go ? There isn't much you can do about the guy, right ? Maybe you should just confront reality and accept whatever comes your way ! If its meant to be, He'll be there for you, still feeling the same :) But there is no point grieving over it. There is No answer or solution to such grieving. The more you think about it, the more its going to trouble you. I suggest you embrace the present and the future !Just a suggestion,Hope it helps ! :) :)
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