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writes: From the moderator: This may be a repeat of "His family is trying to torpedo our relationship!"I've been dating this guy for a little over a year now, and through that time his parents have grown to hate me. Due to a medical condition he was forced to temporarily move back in with his parents as I am still living at home. He can't get his license until his eyesight improves and I am wokring on attaining mine. His parents won't let him invite me over his house or to anything that has to do with his family. They won't even give him a ride over to my house which is only 15mi away. i think it is very unfair how they treat him there. I mean they won't even take him to get a hair cut, I've had to be the one to take him. I swear it is a form of abuse. I love him with all my heart and don't want to risk losing him, but I cant put up with how they treat him and us. Help me pleaseHow can I keep the peace and keep the man I love?
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reader, lindsaycostello +, writes (24 July 2006):
 This exact thing has happened to me! His parents are probably under a bit of stress at the moment because of his condition, but I think it would be wise to talk to them about how you feel. Point out the things you do with him, and they might appreciate you more, especially because this is a bad time for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006): Hi there, I understand how helpless you feel. It's as though his family are trying to shut you out. You mention that he has a medical condition, do you really know what it is apart from the problems with his eyesight? Maybe because of this medical condition (whatever it is) his family are trying to protect him, which is a natural instinct. I would possibly try and find out what exactly is the matter with him, maybe they are trying to protect you too.
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