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I'm older than he is and his parents forced us apart

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Question - (19 January 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I was going out with a guy for nine months. We had huge problems with his parents because they said I was too old for him (he's 19 an im 22) We didnt know what the big deal was. After four months of us being together my dad booked us a holiday to Florida!

When he told his parents he was going they asked him to move out of their house. So he moved in with me. After he moved in his relationship with his parents went even worse.

After five months of us living together they asked him to move back home, they said it would take them a long time to come round to me, after only four days of him moving home they forced him to end our relationship. He then met a girl who was 24!! and they accepted her! We talk all the time and want to be back with eachother desperately but he doesnt want to tell his parents and I dont want to be a secret in his life. Don't know where it went wrong but its really getting me down.

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A reader, Bonnie, writes (12 February 2005):

This is an interesting question. I just got out of a relationship like this. It was his mom who drove us apart. We married. He was 21 and I was 37. I don't believe age should matter if you are of age(18 or older), in love, and respect each others differences.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2005):

Hi,

Well i am sorry to hear that you relationship hasnt gone to plan but i think it is about time you woke up. He may be telling you he wants to be with you but if he really does why did he find himself a new girlfriend. I know parents can be tough to deal with when they are not in agreeance with you but if you really and truly want something you always find a way, whether it be with their blessing or not!

I know it is hard but obviously the parent problem wasnt about age, think, what else could they have known about you that made them think that way about you.

If i were you i would try and move on with your life, find yourself a new boyfriend or better yet just go out and have some fun with your friends. You will know when you have found the right person to be with because nothing will stand in your way. Good luck.

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