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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over nine months. We are very happy together but our main problem is that his family does not believe we should be together because of our ethnic differences. He is Ukrainian and I am Hispanic and Black.His mother feels as though this isn't right. I don't want to end our realtionship because it is the best one I have ever had and he feels the same. We get along great and barely have any problems between ourselves.His mother offered him an ultimatum: either he stops seeing me or he moves out. I do have my own appartment so this is a possibility, but what should we do? Neither of us wants to end our beautiful relationship. Please Help Me :(
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reader, wishes +, writes (17 November 2005):
 His mother will come around eventually. She is being racist, and has no right to feel this way. If you really love each other and want to be together, let him move in with you, or get your own place together. If you realise that you cant be together, please dont stay together only so you dont prove her right. It does sound as though you do have a lovely relationship and will get through this. Shes his mum, and always will be. Do what you feel is right and it may take time, but eventually everything will fall into place. Best wishes, and stay positive x
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