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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy I really like. I told him a while back that I liked him and he seemed cool about it. The only thing is, I do talk to him on the internet but in real life we don't speak.Now I am convinced he is blanking me. I sent him a message on Facebok saying "ah...what do you... er... what do you think when... i um talk to you. its just i want to understand what goes through your head when i er... yeah. i just want to be sure that it isnt along the lines of 'why wont this girl leave me alone?'" but he never replied. I know hes been online since then, cause he left a comment somewhere.He never answers my texts but it could be that his phone isnt working. He mentioned something about that. I did try to call him today, but he never picked up. i just need to get things straight with him.Yet when we talk online he calls me 'love' and 'lovely' and 'hun'. And whenever I ask if he is going to an event he says maybe and then turns up!He is two years older than me tho.What dod I do? Its making me unhappy, how should I act. Should I back off?
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reader, redman414  +, writes (9 July 2009):
He may either be playing hard to get, not be into you, or simply timid because of your age difference.
So since your unsure how he feels, and it's obvious that he won't be making the first move; I would continue to persue him. Your going to have to put yourself out there and risk getting hurt. Although getting hurt isn't fun, trust me it's way better than wondering what could have been.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): It says that she is "13-15". Could your response have been any creepier?
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