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writes:Hi, my bf and i have been together almost 2 and a half years, over the weekend he suddenly got this bad additude and will now he hardly talks to me or anything, im really worried, i dont know what iv done wrong. It started when he was bored on the sunday afternoon, when he gets bored he will go through our fridge or cuboards and find any mistakes i have made such as if the lide of something is not on properly or there is a small stain on the side of a cup, and he will crazy at me, now he hardly speaks to me and has been throwing things around, he has done this before in the past, i just dont know why he does this. im worried its my fault this keeps happening,usaully he talks to me again after awhile and says sorry, but i need advice on how i can approuch him about all this, i did ask him if he was ok and he says yes, but its obvious something is wrong, please help what do i do so he will talk to me again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust an update on the situation, he is now talking to me again, he said he was grumpy because he was tired and thats why he was not talking ot me, he did not say sorry for the way he had been talking to me etc, he seems to think being tired is good reason to be rude and hurtful to someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2006): Why is it YOUR fault if the id isn't on something properly. The question is why does he act like a spoilt brat expecting to have everything done for him?He clearly knows where the fridge and cupboards are, so tell him to grow up. I hate people like this. My advice would be to get out of this relationship, as he clearly gets his highs from controlling you, which can't be any from your side of things. Find someone who loves you for you, not someone who loves to control you.
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reader, tequilarodeo +, writes (22 May 2006):
 Don't go blaming yourself, because you don't know that it is something that you did. I've never had this problem, so you can never be really sure... but if it were me i would sit him down and ask him what was wrong. Ask him if it's something you did, if he is un-happy,... anything you can think of that applys to the matter. It might end up to be something silly that you can both laugh about later. But if you never ask you'll never know... Good Luck & Keep us updated! :)
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