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female
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36-40,
*orriedIsItMe
writes:I have a problem within the last month my husband has been talking to two other females just texting they both swear its nothing but he has told them he is unhappy with me, and that he wants to leave me but he loves me. Well the females tellhim everything he wants to hear. The last 3 times we have tried to have sex his dick will get hard for a minute or two and go soft? We have been married 2 years and this has never happened before? I dont know what do to????
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reader, WorriedIsItMe +, writes (25 May 2009):
WorriedIsItMe is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes he are going to counceling this week coming up... He knows that I know. I confronted him about everything he swears he's not talking to them anymore... but Im still worried....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): I would tell him you know what is going on and if he is so unhappy with you here is the door and don't let it hit you in the ass on your way out. But be ready for him to go for good.
Otherwise, the only thing you can do is to say you know about the other women, it has got to stop or you are going to leave the relationship, he has to know he will lose you if this continues. Ask him if he is willing to go to counseling with you to work on your problems in you marriage. It could simply be a communication problem or negative relationship pattern that is the source of the problem. Or it could be something else. As far as the sexual problem, it sounds like he may have ED or he is angry with you and it is psychological. A lot of men go through something like this when they are stressed or feel overwhelmed, financial problems come to mind....bottom line he needs some help...this is a cry for help.
It's not all YOU, so don't think that and be strong and stand up for yourself.
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reader, Miriamwm  +, writes (25 May 2009):
Well if your husband is unhappy why does he not tell you to you face? You need to tell your husband that you know what is going on. And try and sort things out!
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