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*outure
writes:What does it mean if my boyfriend/person I am seeing has started sleeping on the opposite side of the bed. We used to spoon all night, and even before we fell asleep, and I never woke up once without him by my side , but recently he has started falling asleep on the other side of the bed. He doesn't touch me all night. In need of some clarity men .... Reply to this Question
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reader, hit-the-road,jack...  +, writes (10 December 2007):
maybe he just likes his space and spreading out?
or maybe its your bed.
me and my boyfriend both have single beds, so if we sleep in them we'll cuddle up all night.
but when we stay at my mums house in a double bed, we sleep miles apart!
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reader, Kouture +, writes (10 December 2007):
Kouture is verified as being by the original poster of the question Just to add a little more info to the situation, we have been seeing eachother since August. No titles but exclusive. He recently moved into a new place and I know he's had a lot on his mind. It's so hard because I saw this as a sign of him drifting away from me. I like to be held at night and like the security... am I expecting too much ??
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reader, Kouture +, writes (10 December 2007):
Kouture is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to add a little more info to the situation, we have been seeing eachother since August. No titles but exclusive. He recently moved into a new place and I know he's had a lot on his mind. It's so hard because I saw this as a sign of him drifting away from me. I like to be held at night and like the security... am I expecting too much ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): You don't say how long you've been sleeping together or how long it was before he rolled over to the other side, but I would guess the novelty has worn off and he's settled into a more comfortable relationship with you.
Perhaps he was afraid it was all too good to be true in the beginning and he hugged you all night so as not to lose you. Now he knows that's unlikely he's more relaxed and doesn't feel he's got to hang onto you all night.
Phil
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