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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I don't understand my boyfriend, when he sees me he shows all the things that says he is in love with me with me. He stares at me so intensely, holds my hand even in the most uncomfortable position and he tells me he misses me. As soon as he sees me, he asks to hug me and he hugs tightly and does it for a long time, like 10 minutes just hugging me. He drives the car very slowly and when I ask him, he says he does this to savor the moment he is with me. I keep asking him to drop me home but he extends our time together.Yet when we are apart, he doesn't text me often. Sometimes I initiate the communication. When he calls or texts, he does it late at night then he says he was so busy and tired the whole day. I can say he is very warm on the phone but on text, he sends one liners only and lately has failed to even mention my name. Lately too, when we argue on text he would break up with me so easily saying things like "you do what you want with your life, wish you the best"He behaves like the best boyfriend in person or when on the phone, but on text he's a jerk. I confronted him about this once and he avoids to answer and seems embarrassed. Other than that he acts like the texts didn't happen at all.What could possibly be the explanation to this behavior of his?
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reader, Alexiedos  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 You seem to be picking faults in him because he is a good boyfriend, as long as when you see him he is obviously in love with you dont worry about the texts, there was once a time when mobiles didnt even exist and people had to write letters or never hear from their loves until they are with them. Some people just dont know how to express themselves with words, just actions. You need to trust his actions and how he is when he shows you affection because thats the only way he may know how too. He seems very placid and unwilling to control you, i say thats great. Hes most likely a keeper.
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