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writes:He's the sun. He brightens my day, he keeps me warm and whenever I'm an arms length away from him, I melt.I've known him for 7 years now and I've liked him for 7 years.Back then I didn't know that he would become this important in my life. He's my special person, without him I don't think I can survive.I don't really talk to him but I always see him atleast once a week, but ocasionally less. He's the one person who can keep me from breaking, without him I would be living a life with no light. But he's the only one who can break me.He took care of me since I was a little girl. He still takes care of me.Question: okay so there really isn't a question, i just wanna know what the heck is up with me? or something along those lines. Or maybe what you think of this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): I think it is lovely that you have someone in your life who can make you feel this way. But I am concerned at how you say without him, you would be living a life with no light, and that he can break you. It is important to feel that we can cope with or without someone. To feel that you would break without someone makes you vulnerable. If they were to ever leave, you would be left feeling quite lost. And while that would be natural and understandable, there is a difference between missing someone and feeling unable to function without them.
I hope I am not reading too much into this, and I apologise if I am misunderstanding your question. So as I said, I think you should enjoy having this person in your life. But make sure you have other things in your life which give you happiness and a sense of meaning too. That way, even if the unthinkable happens and they were to one day not be there, you would still be able to go on, and your life would not suddenly become empty or without light.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): There's only one problem I find reading thiS which doesn't make me feel that the situation is incredibly sweet since you stated you don't really talk to him, sounds like love unrequited.
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reader, Lilylove1  +, writes (31 August 2010):
I love this question. I love it. Why? Because it makes me so happy that there is real love out there, not just getting married to your long time friend or to someone you aren't crazy about. There I nothing wrong with you. You're in love. Yes, he may be your first love and he may be a teenage love, but if you feel this way about him, then it's likely to be a long and great relationship. Sorry I'm getting mushy, I just love old fashioned love- you don't like hum for sex, you dont like him because he has money, you love him. :)
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