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He's my boyfriend but he's not....how do we work things out??

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Question - (13 October 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2007)
A female United States, anonymous writes:

I dread being alone. My boyfriend who is not

my boyfriend the same way as was real seem to think

there's a real possibility we could get back together as a couple, though he's been seeing another

girl "occassionally." But in the mean time, how

do we work things out when everything feels weird,

like not being kissed?

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2007):

helpful girl agony auntits ok any time any days.xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2006):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you, helpful girl, because your sensitivity really did help

last weekend & was a blessing

& thank you amerthyst for

reminding me to think, even when I didn't want to hear it.

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2006):

helpful girl agony auntwell if you have any chance of getting back together first you are to work on communication that is the key to sucesful ralationships, so maybe you could try by explaining to him how you feel, and how you want to know whats going on! when everythings weird maybe thinking of a conversation that he likes to talk about will make things not so weird, also instead of him trying to kiss you if you feel like a kiss give him 1 if you feel like a hug give him 1. dont wait for him to make the move cus you may wait for a long time.

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A female reader, amerthyst0202 United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2006):

amerthyst0202 agony auntAdmit to yourself he ain't your boyfriend and move on. he is seeing some one else occassionally he want his cake and eat it find some one who WANTS to be your boyfriend not-some one who can't make up his mind and is only your boyfriend when it suits him you deserve better sorry to be blunt but dont wait for him to keep coming back to you

If he asks you out again say your busy and dont have the time you will find some one who wants to be with.

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