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writes: i wrote earlier on under the heading my partner visits chat rooms.why is he looking elsewhere.i failed to say that he has also recently recieved explicit text messages from a women and again denied all knowledge.i know in my heart what i should do but feel trapped by responsibilities and the fact i still love him.i have nothing concrete which is why he always turns the tables.although he isnt violent he talks to me infront of our kids like dirt and i feel like im going on but cant get this out of my head.hes making me into a wreck but i just cant leave. any suggestions on what i can do to stop being treated like a doormat?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): Stand up for yourself! Give this man an ultimatum that you mean. Tell him that he had better stop this internet and text flirting or you will simply leave him and take the kids with you. Make sure you aren't bluffing. If he can't give you want you need, want, and deserve, be prepared for things to be done with. He's got to see that you aren't kidding around and that you will not forgive him time after time for this behavior. Arrange a place to stay for a night or two with a friend or family memeber. Make this man realize what he is about to lose over these perverted things. If he really loves you, he'll fess up to what he did, promise to never do it again, and stick to his word. If you want people to stop walking all over you, you have to stop letting them. I wish you the best of luck and I hope everything works out okay in the end. Stay strong!
~RJGirl
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