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writes:My friend hooked me up with this guy she met at work and we hit it off well. He's a virgin, doesn't drink, smoke or go out. I was fine with it cos I was going through a similar phase. now I'm over it, and I enjoy having sex. What do I do? I really like this guy, he's a sweetheart, but, he doesn't date girls that do all these things, plus, when am I going to have sex again if I do end up dating him. But, on a more serious note, should I let this great guy go for such 'worldly pleasures', or should I stay cos this might be the real deal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): Sex is not going anywhere love, if you leave it today it will still be there tomorrow, you leave the love of your life today he might not be there tomorrow, if a guy doesn’t have a girl to have sex with or his not having sex with his girl as yet, he will jerk himself off, so no whos to say us girls cant satisfy ourselves, times are changing and woman are becoming just as open about their sexuality as guys, so if you like this guy and there is any reason for you to think he might be “The real Deal” then get yourself a toy, and wait until he is ready, don’t screw up something that could be awesome for something you can give yourself, think about it, and how much you really like this person, through this it might even teach you how to control your sexual urges, this guy sounds like 1 in a million, nowadays if you find a man (boy) at the age of 20 who is still a virgin you are lucky, don’t mess it up you might regret it. As soon as he is ready you can guide him, who knows what a beautiful thing it could be once it finally happens.
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Well, hon, we honestly can't answer that question for you. We aren't you, we don't know your heart and we don't know the guy in question!
The point is...if you have to give up smoking, drinking and sex for the chance at love with this 'real deal' guy, would you? Would it be worth staying home at night or going bowling versus clubbing til 2am to have a solid relationship with a good man?
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