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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Can someone help me? I think I'm in love with this totally amazing guy, but he's completely clueless, and he has a girlfriend, so I don't want him to know. But its been killing me lately. He started distancing himself from me, stopped texting me, tellin me hi in the halls, etc. But he still looks at me, whenever we see eachother, he looks at me and sometimes we catch eyes, and for that one split second I feel like everything is perfectly fine, but its not. I've tried my hardest to get over him, but once I see him, my feelings come rushing back. It's so hard, and it hurts, and I hate feeling like this. I just want it all to end, but I don't know how to get over him, or do something to make this pain, and other mixed feelings go away. Please someone help. Thank you.
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reader, Rjj1902  +, writes (18 January 2011):
Ok if he's dating someone else bad idea. thing is guys who are attached to theyre girlfriends try to distance themselves from any girl who shows affection hoping it will preserve theyre current relationship. its not a question of if he likes you but how much he likes this other girl. me and my gf have been going out for seven months and sometimes when i started looking at other girls (checking them out) i would pinch myself to remind how true i was to my girlfriend. Best advice would be to stay away for a while or until he and this girl break up (which could happen).
i hope things workout
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