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writes:How do I get over a broken heart, my boyfriend broke up with me 6 weeks ago and since then I've sunken back into a depression. This is the second time he has done this but we got back together the last time. he says this time we won't.... I have suffered from depression and can't fathom the thought of life without him. He now says he is going away for the summer with my friends whom we were supposed to be going together. Please help I can't go on.
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reader, softballplaya  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 hun I know how you feel, to lose someone you care for imensely. But let me reasure you that you cannot die from a broken heart no matter how bad it hurts life will go on and thats a promise. I know what your thinking and how you feel. Keep your head high and dont let him know that he is causing you pain and sufferage because while he is out livin it up your stuck in depression and how fair is that?! NOT AT ALL FAIR! What you need to do is get back out in the dating scene and find that guy who is meant for you becasue obviously this jerk isnt. Go out with some friends and enjoy yourself girl! Dont let this guy keep you from enjoying life. You only get one and this boy has no right to make your miserable. Dont worry, I know thats alot easier said than done but trust me time heals everything juss give it some more time and you will see
Take care && good luck, if you need anything im here for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Believe me, he won't come back. I'm in a similar relationship, and though he keeps in contact, he's got another girlfriend. Break all contact, and concentrate on other things, because believe me dreaming, waiting or obsessing about him will only ruin your life and keep you from experiencing true happiness. Do you want to wait around to see him married to someone else. Isn't your life as important as his.
Hugs and kisses. Stay strong for you and be kind to yourself.
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