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writes:Okay, so there's this boy, he's not in my school or year, he's 16 and I am only 14. And he's kinda emo, I've been on holiday with him. And he's one of the best lads that I know. I allways talk about him to friends. But I don't know whether I should just forget about him? Or tell him that I have so much feeling for him. But if I tell him, how could I without people mocking us, and without him laughing in my face?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Two years isn't that big a difference. The bigger issue is that he's past the legal age of conscent and you aren't. As for telling him you like him, you just say "I like you. Want to go out on a date sometime?" It's pretty simple, but can be kind of scary. It's best if you don't play games or try to get your friends to find out if he likes you. Just be direct and do it yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers, but i wouldn't know were to start in saying that i like him? i've only ever been out with two other boys and i never even said that i loved them. so how would i say it to someone like him who's two years older than me? :l
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reader, Tasmanian devil +, writes (7 October 2010):
 if he laughs in your face then he clearly isnt who you thought he was and you should get over him.
but if he doesnt and your worried other people will mock you forget about them, there will always be sad people in life trying to put you down and you should just ignore them beause they always tend to be stupid idiots.
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (7 October 2010):
Tell him how you feel!
Is he a nice guy, is he the type to laugh in a girls face, since you've spend a lot of time together you should have an idea of how nice/horrible he is.
People may make fun of you but you must be strong, dont let them stop a good thing.
It sounds like he is worth the mocking, overall you will be more happy than sad.
Be brave!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (7 October 2010):
If you think he'll laugh in your face, then he's not a nice guy and you shouldn't bother. It doesn't matter what other people think. I know you're at an age where all of that feels important, and in a way is because kids can be very harsh, but really all that matters is your happiness. If you like him, then tell him. Does it appear he likes you at all? Are you friendly with eachother? If he's your friend, he's not likely to laugh at you, even if he doesn't share your feelings.
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