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Her parents hate me even though they have never met me; they have only seen my school record!

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Question - (4 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2007)
A male United States age 16-17, anonymous writes:

Im in love with a girl who is already going out with a guy. When she wanted 2 break up with him for me her parents said that even if they did break up we still couldnt go out!

About 3 days later her parents said that we couldnt even be friends and told people around the school that if they saw us hanging out to let them know. If her parents find out we are hanging out then they're going to send her out of state, which i believe is really over kill. Her parents havent met me yet but they judged me based on my school record which isnt very bad but i have some regrets on my record.

I need help on what to do!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2007):

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well im gonna be able to meet her parents on the 7th of this month at her choir concert but i have no idea what i should say that can convince her parents to at least give me a chance. any ideas?

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A male reader, mitch United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2007):

You must understand every parents wants the best for their children, and this is whats happening here.

i guess you have to show them your a nice person - get your girl to ask you over to dinner with her parents, and get her to try and get her parents to agree to it. then show them your a nice person. if her parents wont agree to this then im not sure what you could do. perhaps ease off though, you dont want her going out of state im sure by upsetting her parents too much!

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