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female
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41-50,
*esty
writes:Hello,My boyfriend and I are very adventurous in the bedroom department and love trying out new ways to pleasure each other. We've recently gotten in to doing some very light kinky stuff (not too kinky though just some light domination and submission).Now, my boyfriend has asked me to dominate him a little further using verbal discipline the next time we have sex. I have no problem doing this whatsoever and am actually very excited about doing it. It’s something we’ve talked about at great length and it’s something we both want. However, I’m a little lost as to what exactly I should be saying other than (for example) “you’ve been very bad and I’m going to punish you”. What else should I say and how exactly do I “punish” him on a verbal level?I don’t want to know how to discipline him physically because neither of us are into that (the only thing that we do physically is me holding his arms up by his head when I’m on top) and I don’t want it to descending into meanness.So any advise and guidance would be extremely welcome.Thanks Aunts and Uncles! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010): There are many standard lines you can use, such as:
I want you to call me "Mommy".SAY IT" and similar for following.
"You have been a bad boy and need to be punished"
He replies "Yes Mommy"
Then you get him to say things such as
"Punish men, mommy"
"whip me, mommy"
"hurt me, mommy"
"Spank me, Mommy"
He assumes the position....ass up and shoulders down.
You need a whip. He counts each whack and replies
"One, Mommy, Thank you, Mommy...and (optionally)
Harder, mommy" or "More, Mommy" etc
etc etc Take it from there.
He will soon be happy to be obedient and you can explain to him as follows " What does Mommy like most"
He replies "Obedience"
You smile and whack his ass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): Start by making him respond to you. Say, "Do you like it when I spank you?" When he says yes, say "Beg for it."
Make him beg for what he wants.
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female
reader, ShadowGoddess231  +, writes (21 December 2009):
 Just improvise!
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