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Help with anal

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Question - (19 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *lowerchild041094 writes:

Hey, I am wanting to do anal with my boyfriend!

We have tried before but it was so painfull I could not take it. Any tips of how to make it hurt less or even enjoyable?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010):

You need to get on top of him so you can be in control. You may want to let him use his fingers first to get you more relaxed. It's going to hurt the first few times but once you get use to it you'll be fine.

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A female reader, LilPixie United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2010):

LilPixie agony auntUse lube. Lots and Lots of lube. The first few times you try it will probably be very uncomfortable and painful but for some it can be pleasurable once they get used to it.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (19 August 2010):

The Realist agony auntI have done it with my gf and this is what she noticed is that you really have to relax and use lots of lube. The lube should also just be plain, nothing that heats up or anything like that. Also tell him to go slow and not go all the way in. You can probably handle half but after that it would hurt and half is definitely enough to pleasure him. If he has a problem with control then hold the base of his penis with your hand so that way it will only be able to go in as far as you want it to go.

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