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Help me understand him! How do I know if this teacher has feelings for me, or is just being shy? I'm over 18, by the way....

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Question - (25 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Help me! Help me! how can undersand if a man is just shy and that's why he don't make the huge step to be his gf..or he just don't want me!

I'm sure that he has feelings for me..but as i read many girls has the same problem with me..he is my teacher! I forgot to tell i'm older than 18..

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A female reader, Gena Bullock United States +, writes (2 May 2008):

Gena Bullock agony auntHe's playing you, dear. If he's friendly, it's because he wants something...and it's probably NOT a relationship. Hang tight and be aware. You're better than that.

Gena

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

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Thanks!for your answers.It's me again

Firstly, i know all of that about teachers and students!You can't have a relationship at school..it's difficult for him more and for me.

But my situation is different..is just a drama school..which students don't have "big" age differences with students.For example..students are 30 and teachers too.I'm 21 he is 30..big deal!

Secondly, i like older man..they are more mature,smart, charmy(as you all know).For my teacher, he start flirting with me for 3 months now..well maybe more but now i realised that he see me as a woman..He is a nice guy i have friends that they know him many years!

So my real problem is if he want me why he don't make the big step??What is he afraid?

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A female reader, Gena Bullock United States +, writes (25 April 2008):

Gena Bullock agony auntHoney,

There are other fish besides 'your teacher' as I don't care how 'old or young' you are. Just because you are infatuated with him doesn't mean visa versa. The best thing for you to do is leave it alone and hang with your friends.

You hear so many horror stories involving student/teacher relationships. They are nothing but 'trouble.'

Gena

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

Students should learn that teachers are off limits.

It seems teachers are told not to go beyond teaching academics with students.

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A male reader, psze1 United States +, writes (25 April 2008):

Regarless of what, and how you feel, or how you may think he feels, if you care about him, you should not put him in a place that may jepordize his career, or yours! you dont want to get kicked out of college over something that may be as simple as a one night stand.

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