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writes:My lover of 3 years went back to his wife. It has been about 8 days now since i have talked to him. I am devastated. Today is my birthday. I am trying to be happy. At least once a day I break down and ichat with him for a bit. He is sad too, but has made his decision. I just don't know why I am so so broken hearted. I always knew we would never work. I am now divorced. He is an Orthodox Jewish man with a lot of kids. Still I can't get him out of my mind. Can you help me please.
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reader, wendie dee  +, writes (17 November 2008):
 Hi it's going to be hard but give yourself time and move on. You never said whether they were apart when you met,but with that many ties he's never going to be free, which is why he has most propably gone back. Happy birthday but why try and be happy when your not,listen to all your soppy songs, have a few drinks, or even a good cry if you want to,spend a night getting him out of your system, then hit the town with your friends. There'll be plenty more birthdays to celebrate and You'll soon find someone new, try not to ring him i know it's hard but you're just adding to the heartache, and making it worse for you both.
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