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writes:Ok first I'll say do to a family situation at home and the fact that I don't drive yet makes it kind of hard to go out. I just moved to a new town so I decided to try out this dating site to meet new people, I know pathetic right? But that was the most convinient way for me to talk to some peeps, and its not like I was expecting to find someone even though it was a dating site.So I did happen to find some new friends in the area, but I also found this guy, who at first I wasn't interested in the least bit but turns out I ended up falling harder for him than I would have imagined. We hit it off great and he only liked me, I only wanted him yadiyada. We thought of meeting each other once I got the oppurtunity since I was responsible for my brother while my parents were away.Well after 3 weeks it looks like he got tired of waiting because recently he has been completely ignoring me. He hasnt texted in 2 days, and its been like 3 days on the messenger(what we usually communicate through)that he hasn't talked to me(and hes been oline almost all day). I asked him before several times if he could wait for me and if he couldn't to tell me. He assured me that he could and that he wouldn't ignore me like other guys have in the past. That he liked me and cared about me but I guess it was all crap right? I mean he payed lots of attention to me at first, to be honest he was quite clingy for he did not have many friends or a job and he was happy to have found me. So I thought he was being real. But all of sudden the attenton stopped and basically it seems his infatuation with me is over. OR he found some other girl he could meet.And yeah, I've never meet this guy in person so why so much hurt? Maybe if I would have met him things would have led me to something else (as in person maybe he wouldn't be so great) and I would have forgetten him anyway? How do I get over him? I know in while I will probably be lauging about this but right now it seems so hard, I really liked him and I still do. I don't want to end up going after him so what to I do? Thanks for taking the time to read my question and any answers will be apreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): I'm sorry but what's to get over? Please don't be ridiculous.
You liked the attention and now you miss it. There's nothing wrong with that, but saying you need to get over him, P-lease!
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reader, Drew77a  +, writes (13 March 2011):
I really sympathise and understand how you're feeling as I was in a similar situation a few years ago. It IS possible to fall for someone you've never met but its also easier to get over them (in my experience). I know you like him but if he wasn't prepared to wait for you then I don't think he's worth your time. I think you'd feel very empowered If you deleted his texts, online messages, email address etc...Cut him out of your life. You might not feel great at first, but give it time and you'll feel like you're the one who's decided he's not good enough to be with you.
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