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He went cold, now months later he's hot again ...

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Question - (21 December 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 December 2013)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am so confuse I meeT a Guy in 18 month ago he work as SAPS we date as couple since last year septenmber was very nice I was enjoy his campony until he ignore me this year march without letting me know the reason now his back hot without confarming his attitude his just so inlove again want me to jump to his loving attention he does not want me to talk about the pass why he left me before he say may I stop the past and be with him

Do I alow him to be with me again or tell him to back off me to move on with my life

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2013):

I am thankful for the answer but now my problem now is I did not get chance to tell him to leave him alone

I did ask him. I want to talk to him.

He came to me to give me a ring, to propose, and ask me to move in with him

I accept the ring because I love him, but I asked him to wait.

I want to think about if I will move in to his place

So do I go and live him or reject him and give him back his ring?

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (22 December 2013):

janniepeg agony auntYou have the right to know and since you dated he's obligated to tell you his whereabouts. I think he semi dated you to make you feel there is a relationship, then bailed out when it's convenient. He got hot again probably because he hit a dry spell. If he told you whoelse he bedded then you would not put out for him anymore. He's not even putting effort into dating you so you can't just pick up where it left off. Move on with your life and never talk to people who disappear even once. It's a waste of your time and it's very inconsiderate of him.

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