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writes: My bf wants to try the girl on top position. I'm new to this. I don't know what I'm doing! Any advice!? We tried it before and i felt uncomfortable!! I didn't know how to move, how to position myself or anything! What do I do? Any advice?--thanks :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): when saying do what come naturally what do you mean? we have tried this out so many times that it just isnt happening for either of us, and to top it of he will go soft on me when i try now, i think that says it all for my efforts doesnt it!!! it never feels good for me i get no feeling at all from it, other than the slight stretching and the in and out, but thats no different than sucking a lolly pop! there isnt a cat in hells chance that i could orgasm from it either as apart from his dick i dont touch anywhere around his groin, it just wont fit, and i cant make it work for either of us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2006): I guess you both should first try to detect what gives you the hugest pleasure about sex. Sex is, in most cases, related to the patterns, or stereotypes better said, the we learn in our early stages of life. You should talk "yourself" into experiencing this position but quite causiousely. In its physical terms, follow the instructions put out on this page for you. But prepare yourself mentaly first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): Your boyfriend will be thinking how unbelievably sexy you look lying on top of him nekked. So don't feel uncomfortable or nervous. Just remember that and you two will manage to get in to the right position and motion, before long you will be an expert I'm sure ;)
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reader, sugersweet02 +, writes (23 August 2006):
 if your scard start out slow and let him guide you first of all. and when you feel comfodent then you take controll lower your self onto his bosy 1st of all and just do what you mostly do. good luck
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reader, camille  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Start with him on top and slowly get him to lift you up whilst he's still inside you, then you don't have to worry about getting into the position as you'll automatically be there. He can still guide you with his hands on yoiur hips to make you feel more confident. The thing about sex is that you may think it's something you're taught by others but really it is a very natural thing that will just happen with you discovering what works for you. Yes you can pick up tips from others, but it's a journey of uncovering new experiences that will be "right". It's very hard to get it wrong if you remain relaxed, open to experimenting and have fun along the way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): It's easy and it shouldn't hurt.
Straddle him over his dick, facing him.
Lower yourself down onto it.
Put your hands on his chest if you like, to keep yourself stable.
Move yourself up and down slightly, either raising/falling or just rocking back and forwards.. you'll soon figure out what feels good!
Good luck
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