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He wants to go further...

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Question - (30 December 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *illyisamazing writes:

okay Im 13, I really like this guy he likes me and all and usually we are at each others houses a lot(all alone). Usually hes just touching me and Im touching him. All the sudden he texts me one day saying he wants to go farther. I reply with a maybe.

I dont have any clue what to do. One part of me says to its not like I havent done it before. But I dont know at the same time I dont want to get in all of this again.

And my other question is hes a year almost 2 yrs older than me.

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, lillyisamazing United States +, writes (31 December 2010):

lillyisamazing is verified as being by the original poster of the question

okay Ive always acted older than I am its just how I think...

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A male reader, ltinajero8 United States +, writes (31 December 2010):

its all up to you if you feel confident about it go right ahead and if you don't well tell him no don't b afraid of saying no... also think about it are you going to let that one time make a messed up your future

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010):

You're 13, can't you wait for high school to be over?? Have a think of the consequences. What happens if you get pregnant? Where would you go? Do you have financial support?? And if you use a condom, would you waste your body to a guy like this?

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A female reader, babycakes345 United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2010):

rite im 14 and if you decide to have sex with this guy make sure you use protection and make sure that u think u can trust him thats wear i went wrong good luck hunni xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010):

My natural instinct is to say don't do it you're to young. However by your comment that it's not like you haven't done it before I see that you don't care about age. But honestly how many teenagers do now days. Since you've done it before I would say go for it, if YOU want to. If you don't want to then don't just because he does. You are the one in danger of getting preg. not him and if you do decide to go for it never forget the condom.

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